How to Be More Attractive to Men .

1  Take excellent care of your hair. Studies have shown that lustrous hair – particularly if it is long – is a major factor in how attractive women are considered, probably because it is an excellent indicator of health. Make sure to get the ends trimmed often so you don't have any split ends. Keep your hair clean and shiny, avoid damaging it through over-styling, and consider growing it out; however, don’t try to grow your hair past the point at which it naturally looks good, as this will weigh it down and make it look scruffy. If long hair doesn’t typically look good on you, choose a haircut that flatters your face shape instead. Read How to Get Super Shiny Hair for more details.

2 Work out. You like your guys fit right? Well surprise surprise, guy like their partners fit as well. Get outside and get active. Exercise every day if you can, but at least 3 times a week is highly recommended. Not only is being fit good for your appearance, it’s also good for your health. Girls might want to focus more on endurance and toning, not building muscle. Just remember that being too skinny is a turnoff; guys may like trim, toned women, but they also like curves in the right places. Read How to Get Fit for more information.

3 Smile and be friendly. Studies show that smiling women tend to be ranked as more attractive.  Make sure you know how to smile with the eyes, a.k.a. the “Duchenne smile,” for maximum impact. Smiling is an instant way of looking approachable, which will make men much likelier to strike up a conversation with you. (Remember, guys like partners that they can share a good conversation and laughter with.) When you flirt, be outgoing but not boisterous; the same kind of charm you are attracted to in successful, confident, down-to-earth guys are what guys are attracted to in partners.

4  Accentuate your femininity. Start by wearing red lipstick. Studies indicate that men are more drawn to a woman’s lips than any other feature on her face, especially when red lipstick is applied. Do exercises that make your boobs and butt firmer. Work on getting a smaller waist, which you can accentuate by making your butt bigger. If desired, you can also take steps to make your breasts look bigger.

5  Develop your emotional fitness. Men aren’t known for their desire to be around tumultuous women. To be more centered, work on understanding your emotions and, if necessary, coping with emotional pain / abuse. If you have a history of troubled relationships, make sure you know how to both have a healthy relationship and recognize a manipulative or controlling one.

6  Groom yourself well. Make sure your skin is soft, smooth, and free of blemishes. A lot of people focus on tanning or bleaching their skin. However, the color of their partner's skin is not what attracts most guys, it is the touch; be sure to moisturize, exfoliate, and stay hydrated to keep your skin as soft and supple as possible. Shave your legs and armpits regularly and consider trimming/styling your pubic hair (however, this is specific to the man who you are trying to attract). Bathe regularly and keep your finger- and toenails clean. 

 Use nice perfume. Nothing drives a guy wild like a good smelling person. Do not overdo it though; wear a light amount so that the guy can smell it when he is close to you. You do not want to wear so much that everyone can smell you when you walk into the room.

7  Dress well. Instead of following the latest one-size-fits-some fashion trend, dress properly for your body type. Simpler is often better; a nice pair of tight jeans and a simple, form-fitting top is a killer combination. Choose clothes that make you look slim, emphasize your bust, or flatter your curves as necessary. To appear subtly sexy, try a slightly sheer shirt. A little cleavage is not a bad thing if you want to catch a guy's attention, but if you have more cleavage out of the shirt than in it, you will leave very little to the imagination, which can also be a turnoff. Sexy underwear is very hot to any man, so be sure to choose something form-fitting and feminine – possibly even a thong.

8  Be yourself. Once you have the look and style you are comfortable and confident with, just remember to be down-to-earth, honest, and have fun. After all, that’s why you’re in the game: to have fun and be happy. If you try to adopt a style or attitude to impress someone, they will eventually see through it because you will be constantly maintaining a persona, and they will see you as a weak individual. Be happy and confident; there are plenty of great guys out there who will like you for your personality, and in turn you will both be much happier.

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